Perhaps it will be helpful to remember that no one can be angry at a fact. It is always an interpretation that gives rise to negative emotions, regardless of their seeming justification by what appears as facts.
(没有人会对一个事实发怒。若能记得这一点,可能会带来很大的助益。负面的情绪,不论是为了什么状似事实的情况而显得多么理直气壮,都是针对某种诠释而发的。)(Manual for teachers-17 4:1)